Let’s say you’re happily married. Completely happily married. By all definitions you live an ideal life. You love you home, spouse, and kids. You consider yourself lucky and couldn’t think of a better lifestyle. You’re content in a way only those that have everything they value could be. You love your life and your lifestyle. You´re happy with your spouse and value him/her greatly.
Would you want to know if your spouse were cheating on you? I wouldn’t.
Once you know your spouse isn’t being loyal, your ideal life is gone. Time can pass and wounds can heal, but it will never be the same. I would never look at my spouse the same again. There would always be that memory. The risk of knowing is greater than the risk of being a fool.
Would you want to know? Why?