"Being who you are is the most natural thing there is. To suppress it, whether through fear, pressure or lack of confidence always leads to trouble. That's why millions lead lives of frustration and desperation. They denied who they are in the hope that the powers that be would reward them. Their reward was mediocrity, depression and a nagging sense that life like that is scarcely worth living.
Take up the challenge. Be whatever nature designed you to be. Never mind whether you face disapproval from those who lack the courage to follow the same route...
Yes, there may be a cost. Some people, even some friends, will disapprove of the new you and will let you know it. There will be setbacks along the way. Yet the price for being yourself can never be as great as the price you must pay for stepping aside from your basic nature: a price paid in frustration, dissatisfaction and wretched realization of all you might have been, but now can never attain...
Mediocrity and frustration are the true price of conforming. Only those with the courage openly to live their dreams can ever find lasting success."
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Hi I found your post to be very true and insightful. If you come off as being someone by your first impression, that is who you should be down the road. A first impression usually depicts a brief vision of who you are, Putting on an act, or faking yourself to impress someone will only harm your success and hold you back from discovering your true-self. I am a college student, and I'm starting to realize how important it is to set yourself apart from my competition this being other college students in my field. Hopefully I would like to start out my career with an internship with a marketing firm somewhat related to the entertainment industry. What would you say is the best way for me to set myself apart from the other students in my field seeking jobs? This could be both experience building wise and decision based. All suggestions and opinions will be appreciated, Thank You.
Comment By: Mike | 2/9/06 at 12:00 AM Be Who You Are